tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5865228009152152772.comments2023-05-18T13:45:33.469+02:00Leila's Journey to LifeLeila Zamora Morenohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00428852564054221982noreply@blogger.comBlogger233125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5865228009152152772.post-73331293389113084772014-09-04T14:09:57.151+02:002014-09-04T14:09:57.151+02:00MJ Jj, In this blog, I take on a specific dimensio...MJ Jj, In this blog, I take on a specific dimension of fear within a specific context. Within this example, if the fear had not been present – what was feared would not have happened as the fear was the direct causal point. This shows, how we deal ourselves ‘bad situation’ simply through our participation in fear. <br />The examples you provide in your comment, are situated in a different context. There, whether you are fearful or not – if you live with someone who’s out to abuse you/physically harm you – it’s going to happen whether you fear it or not – (if you’re strictly looking at this one singular dimension).<br />Here still, one can look at how one is allowing fear to influence self within such an unfortunate situation; as your participation in fear may still create a skewed perception, or create a level of paranoia where besides already being in a shitty situation, you add more shit for yourself through continually being tensed and stressed.<br />From that perspective, it is still very useful to eliminate fear – even though it might not change the physical situation you find yourself within, it will remove the mental pressure that amplifies your precarious situation. With this layer removed, you can even surprise yourself with finding ways out of your situation that you hadn’t considered before, or find ways to minimize your grievances as your previous pre-occupation with fear and anxiety would have kept your perspectives locked into that singular dimension, leaving you blind to alternatives.<br />I have been in situations where I was physically harmed – repeatedly. I get the amount of fear and petrification that one can experience within this. You say “Fear is real when you have a gun to your head, when someone harms you physically and you have to see that person again in the future or when your homeless trying to live in this world.” Your issue is not with fear – fear can be removed. Fear is not real. What is real, is the physical situation you are faced with – the gun to your head, the prospect of physical harm, not living life but surviving within the system. These things are real, and these are valid grievances to have – they should not exist, but are not as easy to remove/direct as one’s own fear as you’re there dealing with the entire compromised world system.<br />So when I say that fear is not real, it doesn’t mean that he issues you for instance brought up, are not real or are not serious – I am only referring to an energetic experience inside yourself, which has a track record of debilitating oneself rather than being supportive, which is something we can change/remove from our realities. <br />I sense that there is a specific, clearly defined issue that is bothering you – which comes through in your last sentence: “Or at a minimum have your 'dimensions' not intervene or prevent those from killing or removing themselves.”<br />The dimensions are in no way involved in intervening or preventing anyone from doing anything. Everyone is 100% self-responsible. I suggest you join the Desteni Forum and open a specific thread where you lay out your interpretation of Desteni and/or the Dimensions and what it is that bothers you within it – as the information you currently have is incorrect – and it would be great if we can clear it up for you through discussion.<br /><br /> <br />Leila Zamora Morenohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00428852564054221982noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5865228009152152772.post-42359348372313191932014-09-03T03:06:23.881+02:002014-09-03T03:06:23.881+02:00You people at Desteni have never lived with any re...You people at Desteni have never lived with any real suffering or lifelong problems that this world has to offer, even for those who are not immediately starving. 'Its funny how we give fear power' Lolololol sure when your nice and safe in the Desteni bubble it's easy to look and laugh. Fear is real when you have a gun to your head, when someone harms you physically and you have to see that person again in the future or when your homeless trying to live in this world. Maybe when there is enough retaliation and bloodshed in this world or from people who really suffer or have to live in fear, people will 'wake up' and understand what's happening.<br />Or at a minimum have your 'dimensions' not intervene or prevent those who suffer from killing or removing themselves.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5865228009152152772.post-44039237724028915012013-08-27T20:36:26.758+02:002013-08-27T20:36:26.758+02:00really cool point Leila, I've noticed that as ...really cool point Leila, I've noticed that as well with having grown up in Belgium --- and that the most fascinating is that we call ourselves 'socialist', but that is like an excuse to isolate ourselves from each other and seclude ourselves in our self-interest, within the idea/assumption that 'everyone's being taken care of by the system, so I don't have to help or care for or consider others' - where we then fail to see the real situation that is never so nice, positive and perfect and where we cannot simply expect a 'system' outside of ourselves to just 'care for' everyone, while we enjoy our self-interested individuality. I mean, the system IS us, so 'Socialism' cannot possibly really work if and when it is not actually being lived by the 'Citizens'.Kim Amourettehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07686413067478622734noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5865228009152152772.post-12716780757532806352013-08-25T07:27:57.961+02:002013-08-25T07:27:57.961+02:00thank you leila!!!
hugthank you leila!!!<br />hugMaya Rhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15349006853068785272noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5865228009152152772.post-65305481004051374532013-08-21T07:09:30.258+02:002013-08-21T07:09:30.258+02:00Thank you Leila for sharing this - I had a laugh o...Thank you Leila for sharing this - I had a laugh out loud when you wrote about him being the most gentle man and the being the the thunder and lightening that shakes your foundation - enjoyed this.Kristina Salashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13042983577743921210noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5865228009152152772.post-80710214506483497672013-08-19T17:53:33.802+02:002013-08-19T17:53:33.802+02:00"He could be the sweetest, gentlest man -- ma..."He could be the sweetest, gentlest man -- making me burst out in tears as I did not know such gentleness could exist. "<br />Thanks Leila.Rebecca Dalmashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05323409186559202573noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5865228009152152772.post-90488988820548403282013-08-19T17:10:40.169+02:002013-08-19T17:10:40.169+02:00Awesome Leila - thank you.Awesome Leila - thank you.lindsaycraverhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02137445127039790676noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5865228009152152772.post-28280593311941782402013-08-19T07:10:58.247+02:002013-08-19T07:10:58.247+02:00"was never quite comfortable around Bernard. ..."was never quite comfortable around Bernard. In general, I have never been much comfortable around people. When meeting new people I would be reserved, first wanting to see what another person's "ammo" was before engaging with them, so that I could be 'prepared' and modify my behaviour as to minimize any conflict -- and only when I had properly gauged the other person and had established for myself how to 'behave' around them -- the discomfort would fade away. "<br /><br />I can relate a lot to what you wrote. I also never felt comfortable around him, because I couldn't grasp him and sometimes he was unpredictable and that scared me - as a conflict avoiderAnnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07585159854135521087noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5865228009152152772.post-57014809304514530942013-08-19T03:19:07.569+02:002013-08-19T03:19:07.569+02:00"He was consistent in his message yet unpredi..."He was consistent in his message yet unpredictable in his expression."<br />Well said!<br />ThanksAdele Caskeyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17551866755717809832noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5865228009152152772.post-45934942529939786052013-08-19T00:30:35.351+02:002013-08-19T00:30:35.351+02:00Thanks for sharing your words Leila.Thanks for sharing your words Leila.Sylvie Jacobshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02779455144307482909noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5865228009152152772.post-40110936969522113232013-08-18T21:30:14.092+02:002013-08-18T21:30:14.092+02:00Thank you Leila!Thank you Leila!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5865228009152152772.post-75857097184124645222013-08-08T08:34:09.934+02:002013-08-08T08:34:09.934+02:00Cool stuff!!!Cool stuff!!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5865228009152152772.post-45301550475693491022013-08-03T13:13:29.343+02:002013-08-03T13:13:29.343+02:00Fascinating.
Thanks for sharing!Fascinating. <br />Thanks for sharing!Michellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15208076722104628948noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5865228009152152772.post-21642543657179912732013-07-13T11:31:08.167+02:002013-07-13T11:31:08.167+02:00Right, killing an animal is in no way a solution.
...Right, killing an animal is in no way a solution.<br />In the Netherlands we have laws where they must stop the development of say building real estate when there's a animal species living there or a plant that's on a list of endangered species.<br />Obviously we were the cause they got 'endangered' in the first place. <br />We need to correct that.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13057862188053933955noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5865228009152152772.post-77590944506438691182013-07-11T14:01:02.860+02:002013-07-11T14:01:02.860+02:00reads like a detective lolreads like a detective lolAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13057862188053933955noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5865228009152152772.post-36397467053739668252013-05-23T05:30:48.869+02:002013-05-23T05:30:48.869+02:00Cool blog Leila! Thank you :)Cool blog Leila! Thank you :)Michellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15208076722104628948noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5865228009152152772.post-4799021914652729802013-05-22T00:42:49.491+02:002013-05-22T00:42:49.491+02:00Cool LeilaCool Leilalindsaycraverhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02137445127039790676noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5865228009152152772.post-31108716810377851082013-02-28T04:01:42.837+02:002013-02-28T04:01:42.837+02:00Cool post Leila -- very supportive. Thank you!Cool post Leila -- very supportive. Thank you!Michellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15208076722104628948noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5865228009152152772.post-46656961524387518772013-02-22T18:12:09.918+02:002013-02-22T18:12:09.918+02:00"As long as we allow any form of distortion t..."As long as we allow any form of distortion towards food and our bodies there will always be serious eating disorders like anorexia en bulimia – because those ‘innocent thoughts’ are merely the key to a door with a very long hallway with destination Eating Disorder."<br /><br />Yeah, precisely. These little thoughts are accepted as "normal" because everyone has them (who wouldn't want to be considered attractive?), yet the damage they do and the extent of it is not realized because only a few suffer through the most extreme consequences. Thanks for sharing!Emmihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14525800697508837060noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5865228009152152772.post-86521235357661840242013-02-19T01:26:52.096+02:002013-02-19T01:26:52.096+02:00Great post - thanks Leila!Great post - thanks Leila!Michellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15208076722104628948noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5865228009152152772.post-63408698530250811082013-02-13T00:26:03.318+02:002013-02-13T00:26:03.318+02:00That is a cool tracking system on Instagram - I am...That is a cool tracking system on Instagram - I am "sould" ;} I go make an account. And indeed let's cut profit out of our systems with EMC. Thanks for writing/sharing Leila!Sylvie Jacobshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02779455144307482909noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5865228009152152772.post-45465895620795931582013-02-09T21:18:33.314+02:002013-02-09T21:18:33.314+02:00Cool self support and practical common sense, than...Cool self support and practical common sense, thanks for sharing Leila!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5865228009152152772.post-54251543226952623042013-01-31T02:35:08.757+02:002013-01-31T02:35:08.757+02:00Interesting shit - cool discovery :)Interesting shit - cool discovery :)Sylvie Jacobshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02779455144307482909noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5865228009152152772.post-12109689783954327722013-01-24T07:28:27.415+02:002013-01-24T07:28:27.415+02:00thanks for sharing!thanks for sharing!malinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14915214913621477065noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5865228009152152772.post-70298355477621623382013-01-23T12:48:43.267+02:002013-01-23T12:48:43.267+02:00Lol Ann -- from my perspective it was never really...Lol Ann -- from my perspective it was never really bad, and did not consider actually having an eating disorder. I also never referred to that period of my life as 'having an eating disorder' because I thought I didn't have one since I was fully aware that all I was doing was 'all me' and self-created. It's only now when looking back at it that I see and realise that there is no difference between what I went through and others who experienced it as a 'disease'Leila Zamora Morenohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00428852564054221982noreply@blogger.com